Easter 4-C
-- April 29,
2007
Twenty years
ago on
Maundy
Thursday
afternoon I
had to
perform an
unannounced,
unnoticed,
and an
uneventful
burial. My
kind
neighbor and
parishioner
at Trinity
Church in
Parkersburg,
Chet
Waterman,
acted as
funeral
director. We
buried Miss
Shelly
Pugliese. No
one in
Parkersburg
had ever met
Shelly. No
one in my
family had
ever met
her. The
first time I
ever met
Shelly she
was already
dead, caught
it the fence
in my
backyard.
Chet and I
laid her to
rest next to
the azalea
bush.
Miss Shelly
Pugliese was
a rabbit
whom my dog
– she was my
dog when she
did
something
bad – whom
my dog,
Angel,
chased
around the
backyard.
Shelly, in
her fright,
tried to
squeeze
through our
chain fence.
She made it
half way.
She died of
fright.
After the
burial
service,
Tracy, who
was six at
the time,
placed a
sign over
her grave.
It read: "In
memory of
Miss Shelly
Pugliese. We
all loved
her. The
people who
loved her
were Bill,
Jessica,
Aimee, Conie,
Autumn,
Lorie, T.J.,
Tracy,
Christy and
Arlena. This
is where she
is berried.
Love
Everyone."
On the side
she wrote,
"The one who
killed her
is Angel."
Half the
people whom
Tracy said
loved Shelly
never even
saw her. As
I said, when
I met her,
she was
dead. But we
loved her
anyway. We
still have
that grave
marker in
Tracy’s
scrapbook.
It's a cute
story. I
tell it not
just because
it is cute,
but because
I think that
it really
pertains to
today's
Epistle and
Gospel
readings. In
the Epistle
reading we
have the
writer of
the Book of
Revelation
trying to
give us a
picture of
what heaven
is like. He
sees many,
many people
dressed in
white robes
standing
around. He
doesn't
recognize
any of them.
He wants to
ask "Who are
these people
anyway?" But
one of the
elders asks
him that
question.
His response
is, "You’re
asking me?
You’re the
one who
knows that
answer." So
the elder
tells him
who they
are. They
are the
people who,
in their
lives, did
what God
asked them
to do. And
now they are
being
rewarded.
Maybe no one
else knew
who they
were, but
God did.
I never met
Shelly while
she was
alive. And
those who
did, only
knew her
briefly –
while she
was running
for her life
from Angel.
But in the
words of the
writer of
Revelation,
God knew
her. And
that is what
is
important.
One of the
enjoyable
parts of my
ministry
over the
years is
visiting the
shut- ins.
It is
enjoyable.
But it is
sad, too. So
many of them
over the
years have
told me over
and over
again that
they feel
lost. They
read the
newsletter
and they
hardly
recognize
any names.
Most of the
people they
knew when
they were
active in
the parish
have died or
moved away.
They want to
be a part of
our parish
life; but it
is so hard
not only
because they
can't get
out but
because they
just don't
know anyone
and feel no
one knows
them.
What I have
always tried
to do is
reassure
them that
even though
so many of
you don't
know them,
maybe don't
even know
their names,
or only know
their names
because we
remember
them every
Sunday in
our prayers,
that all of
them are
loved by all
of us here.
You see,
like Tracy
and her
rabbit, as
Christians
we do not
have to know
others by
name or even
know the
person
behind the
name to love
that person.
It's like
that vision
of heaven in
the Epistle.
When you and
I get to
heaven,
there will
be millions
of people we
will not
know, have
never even
heard of,
let alone
have met. We
will no
doubt ask
them, "Who
are you?"
like the
writer of
Revelation.
But it
really won't
matter who
they are.
What will
matter is
that they
and we are
loved by
God, have
been
forgiven by
God and have
been
rewarded
with eternal
life. That
is what will
matter, what
will be
important.
As with
today's
Epistle, so
with the
story of
Shelly the
Rabbit: we
do not need
to know
personally
or by name
or in any
other way to
love someone
else. All we
need know is
that that
person is
loved by
God. That's
enough.
Tracy's
fertile
young mind
understood
that we
should all
love Shelly
because God
loved
Shelly. It
is enough
that someone
loves
another
enough to
ask us to
pray for
that person.
Our response
is not, "Who
is that
person?" or
"Who are
those people
we are
praying
for?" Or
"What's
wrong with
them?" Yes,
it might be
good,
better, if
we knew. But
it really
does not
matter. God
loves them.
Someone else
loves them
and cares
about them.
So should
we. And that
is why we
pray for
them.
The other
part of the
Shelly the
Rabbit story
has to do
with today's
Gospel
reading.
There may be
many, many
Angels in
our lives:
people
chasing us,
pursuing us,
trying to
get us into
trouble.
Sometimes
either in
our running
away from
them or our
running with
them, we get
caught in a
fence. Or,
like lost
sheep, we
succumb to
temptations
to wander
off
somewhere,
and we do.
But we will
not be lost
forever and
we will not
be, in
Jesus'
words,
snatched
from God's
hands. The
only way we
can be lost
from God is
if we
willingly
choose to
lose
ourselves.
That is the
only way. No
one can
chase us
away from
God. We have
to run away
on our own.
No matter
what the
temptations,
no matter
how strong
the force:
we can have
literally a
pack of
hounds, a
dozen Angels
nipping at
our heels,
but in the
end God will
always
protect us
if we let
God. Again,
that doesn't
mean that we
might not
get nipped
or might not
get caught
in a fence
or two. But
the wounds
will heal
and we will
get through
as long as
we let God
be in
charge.
And even the
Angels of
this world
have their
redeeming
qualities.
They may be
hard to
discover
sometimes,
but they are
there. The
people we
will meet
and greet in
heaven, the
people we
pray for,
were not,
are not
saints. But
they have
been and
will be
forgiven for
chasing
after false
gods, just
as we will
be. When
Angel saw
that rabbit,
she saw
food. But if
Angel could
have
reasoned,
she would
have known
that she
would starve
to death if
she had had
to find
enough food
to feed
herself. She
should have
left rabbits
alone and
stuck to her
dog food.
The Angels
of this
world
sometimes do
not leave
well enough
alone. When
they don't,
they cause
harm to
others and
sometimes to
themselves.
But as long
as they
realize, as
long as you
and I
realize,
that even
when we do
not leave
well enough
alone, that
we can't go
it alone in
this life,
that it is
God who is
in charge
and that we
need one
another – as
long as we
realize all
this, we'll
be okay.
When I
arrived home
to perform
the burial
that
Thursday,
the killer
was upstairs
under our
bed hiding.
Somehow she
knew she did
something
wrong. At
that moment
what was
important
for Angel
was that
somehow
those of us
who loved
Shelly
Pugliese, a
rabbit we
never knew,
show Angel,
an animal we
did know,
that we
still loved
her, even
though we
didn't like
what she
did.
We do that
for dogs all
the time.
God does
that for us
all the
time. Can we
ever do
anything
less for one
another?
Tracy hit it
right on the
head in her
grave
marker.
Would that
every
tombstone
have after
the person's
name these
words: "we
all loved
her" or "we
all loved
him".
The message
of today's
liturgy is
that just as
God knows
and protects
and loves
and forgives
each of us
by name, we
must do the
same for one
another even
when we
don't know
the others'
names, even
when they
pass into
and out of
our lives as
quickly as a
rabbit
running from
a dog, even
when they
are those
dogs nipping
at our
heels.