PROPER
8C – June 27, 2004
"No
one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for
the kingdom of God" -- so says Jesus at the end of
today's Gospel reading. Sounds rather harsh, doesn't it? But
it is also so very, very true, isn't it? Life is lived by
moving ahead and not by looking back. I'm not a farmer, but
common sense tells me that if I am out plowing a field, I
had better keep my eyes straight ahead or else there is no
telling what the field will look like after I've finished
plowing. It's like trying to drive down the road while
looking in the rear view mirror. It can be done, but at what
price?
Yet
we do that, don't we? We often look into the rear view
mirror. But then it is either too late or not the same. By
the time we catch sight of the police car in our rear view
mirror, it's already too late. And, as Thomas Wolfe reminds
us, we really cannot go home again. It's not the same any
more. The first priest I served under right after seminary
had been in that church for two years. He had succeeded an
institution, the founding father almost of the parish. He
longed for the parish he had recently left. A year later the
bishop sent him back to his beloved flock. Two years later
he asked to be moved. In the three years he had been gone,
things changed, people changed. You can't go home again and
you can't look back.
No,
what really keeps us, or attempts to keep us from keeping
our hands to the plow are not so much the distractions of
the past but the distractions of the present. It is the exit
off ramps of life that distract and tempt us. I love exit
off ramps and I hate exit off ramps. When traveling from
here to somewhere, those off ramps can be truly wonderful or
they can be totally disruptive. McDonald's, Burger King and
all the fast food chains; the motels and gas stations -- all
have grown larger than life because of all the exit off
ramps on our Interstate highways.
When
traveling, we do need places to eat and to sleep, places to
rest and relax, so we take an exit off ramp. But also off
those off ramps are many other distractions that keep us
from our appointed journey. The billboards along the highway
call out to us to take the next exit and entice us with
promises of experiencing life as we have never done so
before. There are sights to see and deeds to be done that
can only be seen and done by taking the exit off-ramp.
Last
weekend I went back to my seminary for a high school
reunion. When I went off to seminary in 1957, it was located
twelve miles north of the center of Columbus, Ohio. We were
in the middle of nowhere back then. Back then we walked to
Dublin, which was a gas station. We walked five miles to
Westerville, which was a tiny college community. There were
no more than a dozen houses along the way. There was a golf
course next to us and a golf driving range and small
airplane landing strip across the highway, and nothing else.
The seminary authorities liked it that way too. There were
no distractions and no temptations, like no young ladies.
There were none because we could see none. We students could
keep our hands to the plow, which meant for them, studying,
praying and recreating.
In
1957 the government was constructing Interstates 70 and 71
that now intersect Columbus. Then Interstate 470 was built
to circle Columbus. Today my seminary is on an exit off-ramp
of Interstate 470. The driving range and landing strip are
filled with motels, restaurants, movie complexes and much
more. There are now distractions galore for the seminarians
-- even women on campus.
When
there was no off ramp, back when there was no interstate
system, the Josephinum was a place where love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness and
self-control could flourish in abundance. There were no
distractions. We seminarians could keep our hands to the
plow and plow ahead towards ordination. It was after
ordination that all the distractions became larger than life
-- as I soon discovered.
Not
so today as I said. That does not mean that instead of love,
joy and peace, there is fornication, impurity, idolatry,
sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, anger, quarrels and the
like that Paul enumerates in the Epistle. It simply means
that the exit off ramp has now placed the seminary in a
completely different atmosphere. The temptations were always
there, of course. But now they are more obvious; and, of
course the more obvious they are, the more enticing they
seem. The authorities probably have a more difficult time
keeping the seminarians hands to the plow these days.
The
temptations will always be there, temptations to be
distracted from the task at hand, whatever that task.
Today's readings make that clear and evident. There is
nothing wrong with kissing our parents good-bye before we
head off on a journey or begin our adult life. There is
nothing wrong with doing family duty, like burying the dead,
before setting off. The point is that we must always
remember what our primary task is as followers of Jesus
Christ. And that is, as Paul reminds us, to love our
neighbors as we love ourselves, or, as we would say,
fulfilling "Matthew 25…and all that jazz": using
the gifts we have been given to love and serve everyone we
meet wherever we meet them.
And
the only way to do that, the only way to love our neighbor,
the only way to love ourselves, is to keep our hand to the
plow. My suspicion is that the reason why we don't love
others enough and the reason why we don't love ourselves
enough, is either that we keep looking in that rear view
mirror or we take too many off ramps. Either we keep
remembering the past sins that others have committed against
us or that we ourselves have committed, or we get too
distracted to do what we know we should be doing in the
first place.
We
cannot love when we live in the past, when we constantly are
reminded of what others have done or we have done. We can
only love when we put the past behind us and plow ahead.
Yes, it is difficult to do at times because we are weighed
down by the mistakes and sins of the past. Our past
foolishness causes the road ahead to be more difficult to
navigate. The past foolishness of others makes it difficult
for us to love them. But plow on we must or we are doomed to
live a life of remorse and regret.
While
it is true that we cannot allow ourselves to be distracted
from the task at hand -- which, again, is to love our
neighbor, especially our neighbor in need, there is
something to be said for those exit off-ramps with all their
distractions. Yes, the distractions are often calling us
away from the neighbor, calling us to enjoy, enjoy and
enjoy. And. Yes, those distractions are very strong and they
are everywhere along the road. And, yes, those tempting exit
off ramps seem to be at every bend in the road.
However,
without those exit off-ramps in life, we might never
discover much of what life is about. Those off-ramps are
there not simply to distract us, not simply to delay us from
our appointed rounds, but to help us grow as well. I lived
for twelve years inside the walls of that seminary. I was
educated well and learned much. But it was not until I took
some exit off-ramps in life that I learned what the seminary
could not teach. And I am still learning, often when I take
an off-ramp and venture down an unknown road and see or
encounter what I have never seen or encountered or
experienced before.
Those
exit off-ramps in life can be frightening. They can be
distracting. They can be enjoyable. They can be true
learning experiences. We must be wary of them but we must
never be afraid of them. They are there to refresh us on our
journey and to remind us that life is more than can be seen
from the road we are travelling. And those off-ramps are
there to help us, after we have taken them, to get back on
the road wiser and more purposeful, keeping our hands to the
plow and living out our faith even more fully.