The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady, who is
fully dressed Each morning by eight o'clock, with her hair
fashionably  coifed and makeup Perfectly applied,
even though she is legally blind,  moved to a nursing home today.  
Her husband of 70 years recently  passed away, making the move necessary.

         After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready.  As she
maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description
of her tiny  room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on
her window.  "I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of an
eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.

         "Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room .... just wait."  
"That doesn't have anything to do with it," she replied.  Happiness
is  something you decide on ahead of time.  Whether I like my room or not
doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged... it's how I arrange
my mind.  I already decided to love it "It's a decision I make every
morning when I wake up.  I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed
recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no
longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.

        Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on
the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away ... just for
this time in my life.  Old age is like a bank account ... you
withdraw  from what you've put  in. So, my advice to you would be
to deposit a  lot of happiness in the bank account of memories.
 
        Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still
depositing. Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

        1. Free your heart from hatred.

        2. Free your mind from worries.

        3. Live simply.

        4. Give more.

        5. Expect less.